Notes

Perspectives on death and living spiritually

Even in death everything is ok.  Because in death we are just shedding our earth-born bodies, our spirit, our energy, lives on.  In essence, we do not die.  We just are not able to have the contact with our loved ones that our earth-born bodies enabled us to do.

In spirit-form we see our loved ones mourning us and missing us, and I believe it saddens the newly reborn spirits to see such sadness in the people they love. Maybe it would help humans to be able to see their loved ones that shed their earlthy bodies for free spirit.  To be able to visit them, touch them, hear them. But in most cases, unless there is extra sensory perception, the earth bound  person has no way of connecting with the ones that have passed on, we are unable to see how happy our loved ones really are.  

Instantly in death, the spirit  gaines knowledge and realization of what life is. Back in their home they relax and soak up being back in spirit form.  Unhindered by pain, or even gravity. Being in spirit form is pure, light, floating energy.  As we earth bound humans sit wondeing where the dead go, if they go somewhere and we  wonder if they are ok.  We are trapped in our own eathly way of thinking.  Saddned with regret on things that were said in the past, wishing we could tell our loved ones we are sorry and we love them, just one more time. We want to make things right. Truth is, they know. They understand and they forgive. 

Spirits do not want us to live in regret and pain of not being able to fix the past. They want us to continue to live, enjoy living and learn. I believe it saddens the sprits greatly to see the ones they love here on earth stuck in the pain of their death.  They would prefer to have themselves remembered for who they are and what they contributed.  They take pleasure in watching their earth bound loved ones  prosper and grow spiritually.  After all, thats why we all choses to come here. 

The best thing a person can do for their loved one is to remember them and the spirits know that someday, you will be back home again.   Their perspective is different than ours here on earth.  Spirits can see so much more, while our views are inhibited by life. Its like they are on top of the mountain and can see for miles, while we are stuck in the forest with huge trees in our way.  Hindering our view. They see what we cant.  They know what we dont. They know life on earth is temporary, the true life is where they are. 

For example, if you were a mother that passed on and saw your earth bound child stuck in the pain of your death, it would sadden you greatly.  You as a spirit want to see your loved ones happy and  growing, rejoicing that they shared life on earth with you and learning what spiritually they came here to learn.

I recommend a book that helps in the healing of losing a loved one.  Its a book that gives a different perspective on death.  Its called " The Good Death" by Marilyn Webb.